The Dart Maker Blog

Mukee Okan speaks about sexual energy and describes a premature ejaculation exercise that will increase your overall levels of sexual energy and ‘juiciness’.

My sincerest wish for men is that they can experience the ecstasy of high energy sex as often as possible and learn new ways to stop having low energy sex!

You know the kind where it’s all over in a flash and you feel like, “Why did I even bother?”

What is low energy sex? Low energy sex is usually when your sex experience is short and swift, without much sensation or orgasm.

You may even have feelings of anxiety, boredom, or lethargy.

You dont really care much about your partner and her response.

Sometimes you are even glad it is over.

What is high energy sex? High energy sex is about you being in a passionate energy field of lovingness and joy - the expression of sheer enthusiasm to be in an intimate space with your partner.

That is what it is all about for a woman!

Want to be deeply appreciated by your partner? Here is the secret!

Feel your overflowing desire to bring happiness and pleasure to your partner by being you completely and by being that strong loving man that you are.

You are no longer concerned about performance. You are no longer thinking about what is going to happen in the next split second.

You are simply being with your partner as a joyful, lusty, passionate man and appreciating her. You are not trying to “get it.”

Be in that spontaneity of the moment without thinking, without trying to make something happen.

Just be present in the moment. You will begin to feel and experience your partner’s energy fully.

No expected outcome, nothing to strive for.

See what happens! In this spontaneous space you can feel your powerful masculine attraction energy penetrate the mystery of the feminine - her irresistible magnetism as a woman.

You will feel expansion, union, and merging together.

In fact, you can enter into a remarkable orgasmic experience together where you will totally lose track of time.

You will be in the timeless orgasmic zone of creation.

What if you never feel that kind of enthusiasm these days to just be with your partner?

What if you feel tired, lethargic, confused, anxious, or angry?

Well, here is AN EXERCISE FOR YOU that is just one tip for increasing your sexual energy.

Give this a try:

- Any time during the day that you feel yourself in any kind of low energy state, sit for a few moments, close your eyes, and drop your awareness (your attention) to the navel.

- Imagine you feel each breath moving directly in and out of your navel. You don’t need to change your breath or hold it or do anything special.

- Just let your breath be totally relaxed and spontaneous.

- You drop your awareness to your navel and feel there.

- Feel the sense of expansion as you breath in through your navel.

- Feel a wave of relaxation as you breath out through your navel.

- Continue this for just a few minutes.

- Then notice your energy. How do you feel? Open your eyes and notice your energy level now.

- Practice this any time of the day or night.

What is the benefit of breathing through the navel like that?

Your centre of gravity, your hara, your 1-point as a human is about 2 inches below your navel.

Whenever you focus in this area, you are revitalizing yourself, centering yourself, becoming more solid as a man, and shifting and raising your energy field in a subtle and potent way.

Try it! Notice what influence it has first on you and then on the space where you are.

Your sexual energy is creative energy. It is the energy of all creation.

It is the essence of creation. Nothing exists without sexual energy.

Like the wind and weather, sexual energy is the most natural and powerful force of creation.

Ecstasy appears naturally whenever your mind and body stretch and expand beyond their ordinary boundaries.

Ecstasy is surrender to the life force - to your life force.

Sexual intimacy and connection can be the most profound human experience, a total revelation of your depths, the greatest source of joy, and a path to inner knowledge.

Rooted in the core of your being, you have a deep craving for sexual intimacy, love, and connection.

Your presence in the world is a reflection of your presence in sex and intimacy. Your sexual energy is your most vibrant alive self.

What happens when you block, ignore, or even reject feeling your natural sexuality and desire?

You limit and cut yourself off from the source of your creativity, your inner peace and joy, your health, your abundance.

So don’t let your sexuality languish.

Feed and nurture it like you would anything that you want to grow.

A plant, a business, a child; these all need care to thrive and likewise so does your creative sexual side.

Love,
Mukee Okan

Mukee Okan is a world renowned sexual therapist and spiritual guide. Her mission is to educate and inspire sexual freedom, so people can open and surrender to self-love and self-awareness and experience full presence and intimate connection.

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Copyright 2005 Mukee Okan

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Finding the right swimsuit can be a tall order for some of us.
Not because we are tall, because we don’t fit the
run-of-the-mill swimsuits. But, atlas, with a little patience
you can find the perfect suit to flatter your body.

Here are a few tips.

How about a one-piece or a two-piece? There are plenty of sexy
one-piece suits being worn on the beach. They do not reveal it
all, just enough to keep things interesting. The trick is to
find one that fits your body type.

Are you swimming or sunbathing? If you are into swimming, a
one-piece definitely is for you. Find one that doesn’t cut into
the shoulders, comfortable with stretchy fabric. Don’t get
anything that ties. You don’t want anything to come undone while
doing laps!

If you are small on top, you may want a little swimsuit from
Brazil. Their swimsuits are cut for the smaller bust line. Also
look for one with some padding, underwire or demi-bra style.
These help to enhance the bust line. Avoid tops with too much
fabric or poor fit. Opt for separates where you can choose your
top and bottom separately.

If you are well endowed, you may need some extra support.
Underwire tops work well and look great. Also, halter-tops are a
good choice by offering support. One piece swimsuits with some
structure in the bust work well. Avoid strapless tops and those
with tiny tops that offer minimal coverage. And again, make sure
you choose your top and bottoms separately.

Those with short legs can flatter their figures with suits cut
high on the thigh. This will make your leg look much longer. One
trick is to wear a solid bottom bikini with a printed top. This
will draw the eye upward and give you a longer look. Avoid boy
shorts and skirted bikinis as they draw the eye downward and
make you look shorter.

Clothes look good on the long body shape but you need to make
sure you don’t look like a bean pole! Bright colors and
horizontal strips work well with this body type. Boys short are
perfect for slimming your hips. Avoid horizontal stripes, high
necklines and solid dark colors.

Just LOVE me, like a fat kid loves cake!

Have you ever felt like that? When I first heard that, it hit me
like a ton of bricks. To be in LOVE like that or to be loved
like that would just rule forever. Is that not what we are all
yearning for? Do we not seek out LOVE from the second we breathe
as an infant? We search our parents eyes for that look of LOVE.
We smile because we know it makes them smile with the LOVE that
they feel for us.

To LOVE or not to LOVE? This is the question we all ponder
through out life.

Why do we yearn to be someones everything? We want nothing more
than to feel like the LOVE of one`s life. We spend our lives
looking for that special person that will make our world seem
like a dream. We want to feel safe and secure in our choice of
partners. But how do we really know that this one is “the one”
we will LOVE unconditionally forever? How do we know that this
choice of LOVE will not break our heart? How do we know that
this LOVE will LOVE us when the chips are down and we are not
that perfect person that they fell in LOVE with?

Well I hate to sound like a wet blanket here on a cold night,
but nothing is guaranteed. Life promises us nothing. We make our
lives what they are, right at this moment. In matters of the
heart we gamble, and as I have said before, to give LOVE is to
risk losing LOVE. That is just another one of those bleary
facts. Like rain storms and snowfalls, we have no control over
anything that nature has given to us. We can only do our best
with what we have. I have spoken before about gifts. Well, LOVE
is a gift when it is given and when it is received. It does not
happen because we say we want it to, or when we like a person
and say “LOVE me”. HA. I am sure that almost everyone out there
will agree to that. I am also certain that the word “Stalker”
comes from that notion.

LOVE can be a very scary risk. “Have you ever been in love?
Horrible isn’t it! It makes you so vulnerable. It opens you up,
totally exposing your heart only to let someone get inside you
and twist things up so tight, you can barely breathe. You build
up defenses, you build an entire suit of armor, so that nothing
can hurt you, then that person, not seeming any different from
any other person, wanders into your lonely life. You give them
your heart. They didn’t ask for it. They did something one day,
like kiss you or smile your way, and then your life isn’t your
own any more. LOVE takes your heart hostage. LOVE swarms inside
you. LOVE devours your entire being and leaves you crying in the
darkness. With the simple phrase, “lets just be friends”, it
turns into a knife, cutting its way into your heart. The pain is
like no other you have ever felt nor ever want to feel again.
Not just in your imagination, not just in the mind. It’s like
losing a part of who you are, or rather who you were. That my
friends is one reason we are so careful to not make the wrong
LOVE choice. I know reading this totally makes one never want to
do that. But we do, over and over again. Why?

Is it such a deep needed desire that we really have no control?
Is cupids arrow that strong? YES on both counts.

LOVE is one of the most powerful sensations we will ever endure
in our lives.

LOVE knows no limit to its power, no end to its trust, no loss
of its hope.

LOVE can overpower anything.

LOVE stays up, when all else has falls down.

LOVE is felt when one grasps another’s hand.

LOVE is as much of an object as an obsession. Everybody wants it
and everybody seeks it, but few ever achieve it. Those who do,
will cherish it, get lost in it, and among all, will never, ever
forget it.

LOVE does not waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead
it creates a perfect love.

LOVE is somewhat like an hourglass, the heart fills up on one
side as the brain empties the other.

LOVE is admiring ones heart: as admiration is the love of ones
mind.

LOVE is with you when you least deserve it, because that’s when
you really need it.

These are a few thoughts that I have that tell me what LOVE is
and why LOVE is.

When we’re incomplete, we’re always searching for somebody to
complete us.We must understand that until we admit that while
our partner can add sweet dimensions to our lives, we alone are
the only ones that can bring that same fulfillment to ourselves.
No one is responsible for our happiness.

Some people fall into a pattern of needing that NEWNESS LOVE in
their relationships. These people will go from one relationship
to another forever, never getting off that roller coaster of
failure. They never understand that LOVE has stages. LOVE at
first is so full of mystery and excitement. Then we move into
becoming comfortable with one another and blending our ways to
continue to strengthen our LOVE for one another. We continue to
grow with each other, adding newness to each other by growing in
one world, but as two people. Our years together build our road
to our destiny of spending our lives and enduring tribulations
as one. If you want life to always be a bed of roses, then you
best grow a few gardens, because the roses will only get there
if you grow them or bring them to your life. In other words
sweet people of LOVE, your LOVE and passion is only what you
make it. If you ignore it or get too busy to feed it, it will
die or fade away. It’s like any other living breathing thing.
LOVE needs to be treated with respect and treated like the
special gift that it is.

Another thing we must be careful of is to let those we love be
perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own
image, otherwise LOVE is only the reflection of ourselves we
find in them. LOVE like you mean it, it is the only true way to
let your LOVE for one another grow stronger and continue to be
all powerful and wonderful.

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Relationships ask us to contemplate “forever” as a way of life.

It is a world without end of our own creation.

Toni Sciarra Poynter

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The purpose of life is to discover your gift.

The work of life is to develop it.

The meaning of life is to give your gift away.

The gift, is LOVE!

Dorothy